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Relationship vs. Loveship Dating

When you date to find a Loveship, you'll learn to look for, find, and date ONLY your "perfect fits" – people who are naturally meant for you and have the combination to your heart and soul. 

The simplest way to see what Loveship dating will do for you is to look at the graphs from one of our five Loveship calculators – the past relationship calculator.

The bar graph below shows the alignment level and how much love a typical relationship gets (6.5 out of 10).  

Relationships are characterized by this type of  mixed chart – some high and some low alignment. Because of this alignment, most relationships have both good and bad: love and strife, ease and effort, ups and downs. 

Mixed alignment make for awkward, disconnected dating and relationships that are sometimes fulfilling, sometimes challenging and often fail.

 LOVESHIP DATING 

RELATIONSHIP DATING 

The graph below shows the same relationship as a radar graph.  

You will easily see the areas of misalignment (the green areas).  These are the places the couple did not see eye-to-eye and were probably filled with some  friction, disappointment and compromise.

Here’s the difference:

Relate•tion•ship [n]: a connection between two people who are less than a perfect fit; a love built and grown over time wherein the couple learns to relate to each other. The result? A love that starts out great but fades into a disappointing relationship, heartache, and eventual breakup.

Love•ship [n]: The next universe beyond a relationship; an extraordinary love and incredible connection that occurs only when you find a *perfect* fit for you. The result? An unfading, off-the-scale love where you are seen, heard and understood for exactly who you are.

With a loveship level "perfect fit", and natural alignment you'll experience next-level love. 

No more compromising, no more working hard to make your love work.

Instead, you'll have a loveship –  a  fun, effortless and unfading love where you are seen, heard, loved and understood for exactly who you are.  

The Loveship Dating System

Before and After

They were looking for something better.  With the system, they found it...and more!

"It's like 1 + 1 = 20.  It's such an exponentially deeper, more satisfying connection and love. This is something entirely different.  There are no words.  It's beyond amazing.

                           –Tamara

"It's so easy; there's just so much harmony. The connection is more powerful than I ever thought possible.  It's a whole other level of human connection.

                           –Cliff

"We are so deeply connected; it's a whole different level.  It's so effortless, and easy. There are no question marks. It's amazing. Finally, WOW! 

                           –Jennifer

Jennifer

Tamara

Cliff

"It's like 1 + 1 = 20.  It's such an exponentially deeper, more satisfying connection and love. This is something entirely different.  There are no words.  It's beyond amazing.

                           –Tamara

"It's so easy; there's just so much harmony. The connection is more powerful than I ever thought possible. It's a whole other level of human connection.

                           –Cliff

"We are so deeply connected; it's a whole different level.  It's so effortless, and easy. There are no question marks. It's amazing. Finally, WOW! 

                           –Jennifer

We're taught we need to compromise and take the good with the bad. Making sure there is more good than bad is the best you can expect because there's no such thing as a perfect fit or extraordinary love, right?

Repeated break-ups and not finding the love you want is NOT your fault. There is nothing wrong with you; it's due to the way you date.

And it's the way you date that determines how much love you get!

So, of course, we adhere to this common wisdom and date, knowing we need to compromise and then get what we accept – imperfect fits that result in a love that fades.

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What is 

LOVESHIP

Dating?

"It's so easy; there's just so much harmony. The connection is more powerful than I ever thought possible.  It's a whole other level of human connection.

                           –Cliff

The 

RELATIONSHIP 

Dating Approach...

With a loveship level "perfect fit" and natural alignment, you'll experience next-level love. 

No more compromising, no more working hard to make your love work.

Instead, you'll have a loveship –  a  fun, effortless, and unfading love where you are seen, heard, loved, and understood for exactly who you are.  

So, here you are. You’re a dater hoping to find someone who loves you as much as you love them. You go from date to date, searching for a partner to spend your life with.

But as you are dating, are you thinking about the type of love you will end up with? You'll have to live for decades with whatever love you find, so finding the right type of love REALLY matters!

Maybe you’re thinking that there is only one type of love, but there are actually two different types of love: Relationship love and Loveship love.

Which one do you want to end up with?

Relationship Love or Loveship Love

Which do you want?

RELATIONSHIP PATH

Obviously, you'll get love, companionship, someone to snuggle up to, a partner to go through life with, and, of course, sex.

Let's talk about relationship-type love.

If you date and get that healthy, loving relationship you've been searching for, what do you expect to get out of your relationship?

And 50% of the time, you end up divorced and having to go back to first dates again.

But here's what else you'll get: the ups and downs, compromise, arguments, work, the need to communicate, making an effort, trying to keep the love alive, trying to rekindle the romance, drama, and the occasional disappointment and frustration. 

There's also the committing to be there when things aren't going well, counseling, learning to cooperate, learning to relate to each other, having to adapt, walking on eggshells, exasperation, and not always being on the same page.

Ugh! When you put it all down on paper, getting a relationship doesn't look all that great, right? 

But, if you're being honest, you know that this is exactly what you'll get with a relationship – a mixed bag of love and effort, commitment and compromise, happiness and dissatisfaction.

This is the immutable anatomy of a relationship.

So, if you ditched looking for a relationship and instead started searching for a Loveship, what could you expect to get from your future Loveship?

This is what the people who have a Loveship say about what they got:

It's a love that's so easy...friction-less. It feels like coming home. It feels so safe. It's natural, powerful, phenomenal. It's love on a whole different level. It's so much fun! There are no words: The love is beyond description. The connection is so deep – deeper than I thought possible.

I just get to be myself, completely. We're on the same page all the time. I don't have to compromise, or make an effort, or work at it – it's so easy and simple. It's like an endless honeymoon, nirvana, profound, moving. The connection is off-the-charts, it's like 1+1=20. The love-making is in a completely different universe. It's exponentially deeper and more satisfying than any relationship I've ever had.

Every person who finds a Loveship gets this list. These words describe the anatomy of a Loveship. 

So, which does your heart really want: Relationship or Loveship?

Awesome stuff, right?

Want to know more about how to get started finding YOUR Loveship?

READY

Shift your mid-set, beliefs and focus. Start aiming for what you really want - a love where you are seen, heard, loved and understood for exactly who you are.

Use your Loveship code and Loveship profile to find your perfects fits. Date only those with Loveship potential and begin having phenomenal first dates.

AIM

REMOVE BLIND SPOTS

Data can't show you who is a perfect fit – or can it? Use the Loveship calculators and coaching calls to remove your blind spots and ensure you're on the shortest path to finding your Loveship. 

PREDICT

Use your new knowledge, experience and the calculators to choose only a Loveship. Never settle or compromise again!

WE'VE HELPED 100s OF DATERS...

WE'VE HELPED 100s 
OF DATERS...

This teaching turned me right-side up. I will never again compromise or settle for anything less than what I truly want.

 –Alexandra

When we met for our first date, they closed the restaurant around us. We were on the same page on absolutely everything…and it's been like that ever since.

-Tamara

None of my other relationships had this level of love and connection. It's so fun, easy, and connected.  It feels magical!

-Kirsten